A nervous parent will likely scour the internet looking for articles about finding out if my child is using marijuana counselors.
While some of the information on how to determine if a teenager is smoking drugs is legitimate, much of it is far too “after school special” for this time. Some of these articles indicate that children are willing to disassemble parts of their parents’ homes to build marijuana smoking devices, while others suggest that teenagers fill their rooms with air fresheners to mask the weed smell.
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Of course, to combat the outdated nature of this information, we felt the need to compile a more realistic list of signs that could suggest that your teen has at least some interest in marijuana.
Look at your teen’s eyes / face
People who have smoked marijuana often have a hard time hiding the fact that they were stoned. Their eyes go red and blinking, and depending on the size of their humming, their faces can sometimes look more like a cartoon character than anything entirely human. Skilled tokers learn over time how to hide their sovereignty. They use eye drops to remove the redness and they have learned how much weed to smoke without being blasted in such a way that they are falling apart at the seams. But Teenagers I still have a lot to learn about how to get high before reaching this level.
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So if you find eye drops in their room or vehicle, it is a good sign that they are trying to hide something. Changes in their laughter (they can easily enjoy themselves when they are alone in their room) could also be a clue.
However, we’d like to point out that this is only part of the puzzle. Eye drops and increased laughter don’t 100 percent mean it is your child Smoking marijuana. Maybe they have allergies or they are just happy to be alive. Storming into their room and reading to them the riot about their marijuana use at the time is probably not the best approach. But maybe now is the time to pay more attention to other behaviors.
Check teen’s laundry for odors
Although there are all types of marijuana products on the market, smoking is still the most common form of consumption. If you notice that your teen’s clothes smell like weed, it may also be a sign that they are being used. But remember, this alone is not a reason to give them the third degree and start punishing.
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They could have been exposed to the herb while hanging out with friends, but chose not to participate. Hey, it’s possible. Not every child succumbs to peer pressure. But just because you can’t smell anything else on your teen’s clothes doesn’t mean they won’t get high.
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You could use vapes or edibles, neither of which have a pungent odor, making them difficult to spot. Search Steam equipment and other smoking devices. It never hurts to see what’s in their trash either. In a teenager’s mind, you would never rummage through their trash to see what kind of wrongdoers they become. But parents are like the CIA.
Watch your teen raid the fridge
All teenagers eat like animals. They grow and their metabolism goes wild. Because of this, children always seem to be in the fridge looking for something to eat. You may have had dinner an hour ago, but you’re kind of hungry again. Still, one of the main side effects of marijuana is that NibblesAs a result, it can sometimes be difficult to pay attention to your eating habits. If they make an extra sandwich from time to time, that’s probably nothing to worry about.
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Remember, your metabolism has gone wild! But when they come out of the kitchen with bizarre culinary creations (we’ve always mixed peanut butter and marshmallow fluff) it can be an indication that they are torn. The best way to find out for sure is to bring it to their attention. When you sit down with a bowl of ice cream with fruity pebbles on it, just say, “What are you up?” What happens next, the squirm, the paranoid screeching could be all evidence you need.
Just have an open conversation about marijuana
The most effective way to tell if your teen is smoking (or even thinking about) marijuana is to have an open, honest, and calm conversation about it. If you’ve built any relationship with them over the years, they’ll likely give you more information about their exposure to the herb than you could ever find while trying to be the household detective. Teenagers are smart (although they don’t always behave like that), so it is not incomprehensible to explain to them how their actions can affect. We believe that showing teenagers that we are “on their side” is better than becoming parents.
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Everyone makes mistakes, and none of us are perfect at following the rules. Help them understand that your aversion to marijuana is only about making sure they have the best chance in life. Let’s get you through high school and if you want to make marijuana a part of your world then so be it. But at least let’s make sure you get a job decent enough to be able to afford. Because mom and dad don’t support anyone else’s weeding habit except their own!